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Robert J Lahaise

July 15, 1943 — March 18, 2025

Robert James LaHaise of Grafton passed away in the early morning hours of March 18, 2025.

Robert was born on July 15, 1943, to Joe and Edith LaHaise. He was one of five siblings and attended school in Oakwood. Robert was a devoted husband, a hardworking man and a cherished grandfather whose love and commitment to his family shaped the lives of those around him.

Born with a strong work ethic and a kind heart, he dedicated himself to his family and his work throughout his life. Robert was united in marriage to Marlene (Collette) LaHaise on August 22, 1964, in Grafton. Together with his wife, he built a home filled with warmth and laughter. His unwavering dedication to his family as well as his skill set in mechanics made him the man to call when anything needed to be fixed; “Bob will know how to fix it.”

Robert was a proud father and a devoted husband. His family knew him as a supportive and dependable figure, always willing to offer advice, a helping hand or simply a listening ear. There was nothing he loved more than a cup of coffee, a casino, a full toolbox or a cruise on his John Deere lawnmower. He was a true helper, willing to give the shirt off his back for those he loved.

All who had the privilege of knowing him will dearly miss Robert’s generosity and sense of humor. His presence was a source of comfort, and his absence leaves a profound emptiness in the hearts of his family and friends.

Robert was preceded in death by his parents; his sister, Joanie; and his brother, Duane.  He is survived by his wife, Marlene; siblings, Bill, Rick and Jerome; his children, Loree (Bob) Osowski and Mark LaHaise; his grandchildren, Mark Jr., Ashley, Hunter, Elly, Stephanie and Brandon; along with several great-grandchildren. Though he is no longer with us, his memory will live on in the stories shared, the lessons passed down and the love he gave so freely.

Mass of Christian Burial will be Friday, March 21, 2025 at 10:30 AM at the St. John the Evangelist Catholic Church of Grafton.  Visitation will be for one hour prior the service at the church.  Interment will be at the St. John’s Catholic Cemetery in the spring.


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Friday, March 21, 2025

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Friday, March 21, 2025

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